Believe • Create • Inspire

How to Cuddle with your Cactus

A few years back, I began volunteering at the SF Botanical Gardens and was randomly assigned to help weed the Cactus garden. So began what I lovingly call my free weekly, four-hour, acupuncture session!

Cactus have character! And placing one in your home requires care! Recently a client asked me where would be a good place to put her cactus, and I thought I’d pass on the essentials around cactus and living space.


Mind the Spikes!

Cactus needles provide a natural protective energy, demanding respect, but if in the wrong place, they can poke a person inadvertently both physically and emotionally.


Feng Shui Placement of your Cacti

The “Fame & Aspiration” quadrant of your home, room or property, is the ideal place for cactus as this is the area associated with projecting the image you wish to be known for in the world, and the cacti “protect” your reputation energetically when placed here. The Fame and Aspiration is the area directly across from the entrance, the center of the far side of the room, or the far side of your home as a whole, or even the far side of property as a whole.


Avoid placing a cactus in:

  • Front door or entryways – unless you are deliberately trying to protect yourself from neighbors or unpleasantries just outside your door, you want to keep all cactus far from the front door and entryway so as to allow and invite as much fresh and life-giving energy into your home and life.
  • Bedrooms – cactus in the bedroom will lead to feeling “pricked,” as its a space meant to foster openness, and letting down walls and creating intimacy… mmmm, it’s probably not a good place for cacti!
  • Dining Rooms – As the dining room is a space you want to encourage people to share and be familial, it is best to avoid sharp tips poking into everyone, which may lead to people unconsciously feeling like someone else at the table is saying or doing something to nab and nudge them.
  • Office – You don’t want to have cactus in your office or the waiting room of your office as it will poke your potential clients and business partners coming in to do business with you.
  • Kitchen – How you feel when you prepare your food gets cooked into the food! So if you are surrounded by cacti, you may feel continuously stabbed and perhaps agitated while cooking, which would lead to the food tasting, well, in a word, “bitter.”


Rubber Tree Feng Shui

Succulents and Cacti do have benefits energetically and aesthetically. I especially like the sense of survival they project, reminding us we too are capable of surviving. One way to please your cactus-passion in your home is to have the succulents and cacti that do not have spikes or thorns, such as the rubber tree… such fun the rubber tree! Every time I pass one, I can’t resist the urge to go and mess with it as if it were some little dog!

Wherever you decide to place your cuddle cactus, keep in mind that healthy plants give healthy energy, so sing, water and sun your friends as much as yours and their hearts desire!


One Response to How to Cuddle with your Cactus

  1. […] to the Feng Shui, cactus plants can keep your energy and protect you from bad vibes. Good places to put cactus at […]

“Intuitive and ‘got’ what I was aiming for!” – Nayer K

“Intuitive and ‘got’ what I was aiming for!” – Nayer K

Nayer K: 

When I decided to make some major positive shifts in my life I knew immediately whom to contact – Salvatore. I’m SO glad I did!!! I’m only 6 weeks out from my consultation, but my already nice-feeling space is becoming blissful, reflecting the cool chick I am and am growing to be even more.
He’s very intuitive and “got” right away what I was aiming for–that was huge. He’s also been consistently available for advice as I continue to make changes, and has a stellar memory of every inch of my space.
Every area of my life that he asked me to describe in my goals is shifting positively right along with the physical changes. WooHoo!!!
If you’re reading this review and considering a consultation, go for it. Enjoy the space and life of your dreams!

Work Life Balance

Work Life Balance

Five principles to help you create the Work-Life Balance you want.

This year, I had to make my way back from burn-out. I was working too much and living too little. I set out to shift my life and came up with five principles of a Work-Life Balance. This Fall has become the season of “More Being and Less Doing”!

The Elusive “Work-Life Balance”

It is a stand-out goal for most, and yet, the concept of a work-life balance is still vague at best. Part of that is in it’s uniqueness to each individual, and part of that is the difficulty of quantifying what it means.

Secrets to Vision Boarding

In 1992 I created a collage of images that inspired me. Immediately, things started shifting in my life that were inexplicably synched up to that collage, and the shifts continued unfolding for years. My accidental discovery of the art Vision Boarding sparked a thirst for just how it is that we can create and turn dreams into reality.

Having taught, written, and practiced Vision Boarding over the decades, I’ve learned secrets that separate successful vision boards from those that are just pretty images.

2017 Chinese New Year

The Year of the Sheep

The most important of Chinese Holidays, the Lunar New Year, is a full 15 days of festivities beginning with the “Reunion Dinner” just before the New Moon (February 18) and ending with the “Red Lantern Festival” on the Full Moon.

In America, the celebrations in Chinatown’s include the “Chinese New Year Parade.” The biggest and the first parade of its kind began in San Francisco, and this year it will be held on Saturday, March 7.

Join to Keep your Chi Moving!